I was delighted to receive an excited message the other day. A sweet woman who had purchased my book,
Lose Fat, Not Faith was writing to share a powerful experience. I call all of my customers, so I feel she is more like a friend because we've had some terrific conversations together. So I was very excited to hear about her personal triumph. She had been pushing herself hard during a cardio session. In the book, I talk about overcoming obstacles — I even share a deeply personal experience with this. That experience gave her fuel and inspiration to push through, and she accomplished a personal best.
Isn't that awesome? I love helping people become their best. In fact, this is what a new client of mine shared with me last night. We were speaking about her situation, and she was sharing how she is tired of not being her best. How interesting, and appropriate, that the slogan for
my coaching happens to be, "Become Your Best!"
I don't have to recall that experience to remind myself how to pursue greatness ... I seek it every day. Take, for instance, my run yesterday. I was determined that I would finish this ... the last two times out with my mother, I had to stop because of the heat and exhaustion. This time, I was focused. Was it easy? No. Did it get uncomfortable? Yes. But that's what being human is all about ... we often find our greatest moments during the most challenging times. This is why I've learned that I never want to spend more than a few split seconds in the "comfort zone" ... it's too easy to fall asleep there. Life is like going up the down escalator ... if you stop pursuing it, you'll end up going backwards. I'm eager to run up those steps.
So, when I started feeling tired, did I stop and walk? NO! I slowed my pace, focused on my breathing, and kept going. When the path seemed to stretch a long ways before me, almost like it had no end, did I despaire? No way. I found a marker ... a shadow that fell across the path ... and focused on reaching that point. Once I was there, I picked a new spot, and focused on that.
As I was returning back to the car, I approached an overpass. My legs felt like lead. My stomach was turning. It was difficult to catch my breath. The sun was beating down on my face and I was soaked with persperation. I was ready to throw in the towel and walk.
Did I?
What do you think?
I reminded myself that these rare moments are when we awaken the greatness within. We only have so many chances to be brilliant in life, so why pass any of them up? No, this won't change the world, in fact, it was a very personal moment ... but it was a moment that changes ME and how I navigate day to day. So I sucked it up. I kept going. When I reached the top of the ramp, I broke into a face-paced run. It was not an all-out sprint but a steady, fast jog. I lifted my head, stood tall, confident, took deep breaths, settled into the rhythm, and finished.
How often do you let yourself sink into the comfort zone? You surround yourself with familiar things and become complacent. Trust me, it's easy to do. But have you stopped to think about the most amazing moments in your life ... when you wanted to jump and shout and celebrate? could it be those came just outside of that comfortable area most people live in?
One way you can step out of that zone and create transformation in your life is to join us at one of our
seminars. It might not be close by ... you may have to drive a bit, or fly to it. Guests drove for hours and hours or flew from across the country to our last seminar. They received empowering information, but more importantly, they connected with each other. It created friendships, and bonds between people with a common goal: to shed weight and live healthy. It was about freedom more than anything, and it was wonderful to see our guests empowering and inspiring each other.
It's that type of inspiration that can lead to permanent weight loss, not just another bounce on the yo-yo diet. It takes changes in lifestyle to make it permanent.
This article discusses studies that focus not just on how much people lost, but how they managed to keep it off. Points include keeping food records, having a good support system, and following up with a provider for monitoring. Both my
one-on-one coaching and our
online personal training system offer all of these!
We just received another 5-star review of
Lose Fat, Not Faith posted to Amazon.com. This one read, "I take the book with me to work. What a great motivator. I have already ordered a second book for a friend ... if this book doesn't motivate you — I don't know what will." Thank you, Margaret!
I really believe that most people give away their power when they subscribe to a strict diet, because it's not only asking someone else to tell you what to eat, but also placing responsibility on the diet instead of your own actions. For example, while I know that sugar addiction can be a real condition people suffer from, the problem is far more complex than people make it out to be. "Sugar is bad." Why? "Sugar raises your blood sugar quickly." Well, not all sugars. Even broccoli deposits sugar into your bloodstream, just at a slower rate. Most fruit (sugar) actually puts sugar into your blood more slowly than oatmeal (not considered a sugar, even though it is broken down into one). So again, why is "sugar" so bad? In fact, honey will do far less for raising blood sugar than maltodextrin, which is considered a complex carb. I really believe the issue is never sugar versus non-sugar, but instead refined/processed sugars versus natural, whole foods.
This article draws the same conclusion I have: there's no magic food item, like sugar, that contributes to gaining weight. It's more complicated and tied to overall calories and exercise. There are several chapters in my book,
Lose Fat, Not Faith that cover simple sugars, complex sugars, the glycemic index, glycemic load, the insulin index, and other factors related to exactly how carbohydrates impact your health and nutrition status.
While we know that obesity is more complex than just blaming fats or sugars, we are also finding out it is impacting more areas of the world.
This study found that 65% of the people living in Bahrain are obese. While recent articles report that obesity might not be an epidemic and isn't as bad as the media has made it to be, other reports like
this one disagree, and claim that this may be the first time in years that average life expectancy will go down, not up.
So what happens when you've made some lifestyle changes and are doing well, when suddenly you become seized with the desire to binge?
This article offers some tips to avoid those deadly breakdowns. I also discuss this at length in my CD, "The Five Keys of Healthy Eating," available as part of the
Lose Fat, Not Faith 5-CD Audio Program.
Here's a great insight into how the pharmaceutical lobby works.
This article condemns Vitamin E as a healthy supplement, then jumps straight into the "promise" shown by a new drug being manufactured, even though it reduces "good" cholesterol and induces an irregular heartbeat. For love of money!
Speaking of money, I had someone write to me last night and ask a simple question: "Jeremy, are you in this just to make money or to sincerely help people lose weight?" My reply? Both! I sincerely wish to make money by helping people successfully lose weight and keep it off. Now that sounds like a win-win to me.
While we're on the topic of "making money," in addition to touting their products as having powerful fat loss benefits, the dairy industry is also bringing more flavored products to the market in an attempt to compete with the soda industry.
This article raises some concerns about whether or not these products truly are the healthy alternative they promise to be. One "expert" attacks saturated fats in the article.
Everyone knows that saturated fats are the unhealthy kind, right? Well, not so fast. If you want the full scoop on fats, and don't mind a little technical reading, check out
Fats that Heal, Fats that Kill and find out why some saturated fats can actually be
good for you!
The Mayo Clinic has
these tips on how to handle children who are picky eaters.
Two questions I often receive are, "Is coffee bad for me?" and "Can't I still have alcohol?"
This article addresses both. More questions, like "How long can you leave coffee in the pot? Do you have to refrigerate eggs? Is it safe to leave pizza out overnight?" are answered
here.
Bodybuilding continues to be a non-mainstream sport, but it is gaining momentum. Here is
one article that profiles a young man who hopes to be a professional bodybuilder. Check out the picture of him dead-lifting 440 pounds!
The author of
Helping Your Overweight Child — A Family Guide offers these words that may be encouraging to some:
Eat more and lose weight!
Now I'm off to finish publishing this month's newsletter!
Blessed be,