I want to start with an apology for not being consistent this week. I believe the most important part of any type of success is consistency. Fortunately, I also believe in adapting and this week was a new week for us. My wife started a contract that has her out of the house, and I've taken on new projects that have me productive throughout the day, so we had an entirely new schedule this week. Fortunately, we now have worked out all of the little details (who takes our daughter to school, picks her up, etc.) and next week will be far more balanced for me. It is still my intention to provide these updates every day.
Thanks for your patience!
For those of you who subscribe to my
Become Your Best Coaching Podcasts, have patience. We pulled the downloads offline because the overhead was enormous. I'm implementing a structure so that you can listen to them for free or download the large files for a nominal subscription rate. It will be no more than a few bucks a download and I'll offer a lifetime subscription as well. This won't impact the controls that allow you to listen online as those do not impact our own bandwidth.
I am also in the process of designing some seminars. They will be in the local area (Tampa) to begin with, but I'm still open to out-of-town venues. If you are in an area that you feel deserves a workshop,
contact me and let me know how many people you are willing to help me put in a room and we'll see what we can create together! I'm also interested in whether you prefer a workshop that lasts a few hours and is highly focused, or one that lasts several days and covers as many topics as possible.
I had fun with a mail that I received the other day telling me I am fake and greedy because I sell my products. I was told that if I really care, I should give them away for free in the "true spirit of human giving."
It's an interesting concept, really. I thought about it, and proposed that they ask their boss to stop sending them a paycheck. After all, in the "true spirit of human giving" they should just do the job for free, right? I was also a bit confused at how I would be able to pay the editors, graphic designers, CD manufacturers, printers, credit card service providers, shopping cart software licenses or even the people who host my website. From what I understand, these things are supposed to magically fall into place as I cheerfully hand out CDs by the dozen.
Truth be told, I've done my best to give you access to information ... over
500 articles and frequently asked questions, literally
hours of free audio, and more. Forutnately, these e-mails don't get me down. I had a good coach, but the reason I'm bringing this up is not out of frustration over the mail I received, but because it is a timely lesson.
You see, some of you may be in the same boat, where you are frustrated because you feel you can't pay the bills or afford the things you want. Others reading this have incredible gifts and services to provide but feel so guilty about receiving any compensation that you won't grow it into a business.
I only have two pieces of advice to pass on.
First, think about this. Giving is great. I love giving. I don't believe giving should be something I do to receive attention or gain popularity, so I don't write about the donations I make or how I choose to contribute unless I'm hoping you will be involved, too. That's really between me, whoever I'm giving to, and God. Here's something to consider, however. What if everyone I tried to give to said, "NO WAY" and refused to accept what I have to offer? That would put me out of business as a giver. So, understand that giving is only successful when there is a receiving side. The next time someone says, "Let me pay you" or "Here, take this," and you think it's kind or noble or humble to turn them down, realize that you aren't being kind or noble or humble ... you're throwing things out of balance by putting the givers out of business. You say giving is good, but then you don't receive and that means the givers can't give!
Second, I enjoy being able to go to church and tithe. I am grateful that when the hurricanes struck, I was able to donate something. How much more powerful will it be when a $10 donation can become a $100 donation? How much more good will I be able to do in this world if instead of $100 I am able to give $1000? Before you decide that you should be poor and noble, realize that if you truly believe in giving, then you also must believe in success and abundance. By not doing your best, you are taking away what you could otherwise give. Do you understand this? Being abundant isn't about having more and being selfish, it's about producing more than you need so that you can GIVE out of your abundance.
Two simple concepts, but these are very powerful. Many people would rather complain and attack those of us striving to make a difference than take the time to discover how they can create their own success. The person who wrote me complained of their financial situation ... but instead of taking responsibility and asking how to change the situation, they chose to belittle me and ask me to solve their problem for them. Do you think they'd really receive any value from anything I could give to them? I doubt it.
Let's jump into some news.
Here's an interesting concept. Start with the simple question, "Buddy, do you have time to workout?" and then turn it into
Buddyfit.
Got a problem with your weights?
Ya gotta move 'em to lose 'em! More of our children are catching on ... in fact,
more girls are joining high school weight-lifting teams!
Believe it or not, not everyone focuses just on treats and meals during the holidays. There are also a number of events that can help you burn off that holiday flab ... but I'm not talking about the 1-mile walks or 3-mile trots. There are some serious folks who take on serious challenges, like the
50 mile ultramarathon. Here's some food for thought: you might think that you can easily get rid of the extra calories by pounding the pavement. However, a few miles aren't going to do as much as you think ... the average runner burns about 100 calories per mile. That means even 50 miles only burns about 5,000 calories ... which is less than what some people consume every day! Don't get me wrong —
moving IS important, it's not the end-all, be-all most people believe it is.
For those of you still looking for the magic diet pill bullet, it just doesn't work as well unless you also
exercise and manage your nutrition. What I've found is that if you do those well, you can save your money because you don't need the pills.
You've probably heard that genetics play a role in determining how easy it is for you to gain or lose extra weight. Here's something you might not have realized ... besides affecting your jeans,
how you eat might affect your GENES!
Aw, shucks. Despite being a bestseller, the
Mediterranean Diet doesn't appear to have much of an impact at all on our size, according to a
recent study.
What a mother eats can impact her unborn baby's development. More interesting, however, is that
how a mother feels impacts what she eats.
Can we ever grow tired of the
holiday tips to stay fit while enjoying the feasts? Nevermind, don't answer that.
Apparently, a new drug that suppresses appetite
causes weight loss and improves cholesterol. Guess what? I've found in my years of coaching that the right willpower can do the same! (Did you know you don't need drugs to suppress your appetite? It's true ... just push the plate away. Who's in control, the turkey or you?)
From Montgomery, Alabama:
music may help boost fitness results. I like techno and hip-hop for cardio and pure rock for lifting weights, what about you?
I thought I'd heard it all ... but did you know that just
dressing 'right' could help you lose weight? Go figure!
W.H.O. says we are not doing enough to fight obesity? That's right ... the
World Health Organization has thrown down the gauntlet.
In conclusion, I have one more special gift ... due to my full schedule, I have removed the option from my page to hire me for phone-based coaching. There are no available slots during the day! However, I do have some time in the evenings free ... enough for five individuals who are ready to transform their lives. If you are one of those, take a look at my
online coaching services. The second page has my rates. If you are interested in adding 12 phone-based sessions, for a total of 6 hours (that's 30 minutes every week for 3 months) to your program, then purchase the Silver Package and indicate in your order commnents that you'd like phone time as well. I'll give this to the first five people for only $200 extra ... that's
$800 off the normal rate!
Those of you who have requested assessments, I will be scheduling them through this weekend and will extend the offer to you as well.
Until next time,